A Different Kind of Epidemic:

Dad’s Book & Blog to

Start Urgent Conversation

Between ‘Forgotten Fathers’ of Chronically-Ill Children.

In a unique fusion of memoir and self-help, Illes spares no criticisms when making it abundantly clear that virtually no help or support systems exist for fathers of chronically-ill children. Thirty-two million U.S. families are dealing with such plight, and nobody has yet spoken out publicly.

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Russ Illes

Russ Illes

About the Author: Russ Illes is a 64 year old father of two grown daughters with three granddaughters. His youngest daughter was diagnosed with ALL at age 3.

Over the last 30 years the cancer has returned a total of six times. Each time taking a different form. Russ has undergone therapy of one sort or another for 15 years and been involved with the Living with Cancer Support Group at South Shore Hospital in Weymouth, Ma.

He was a volunteer in cancer hospice care for 8 years. He is co-founder, leader and participant of a men’s support group that has been together for 24 years.

Russ has been involved with the “Friends of Hope” project at South Shore Hospital in Weymouth, Ma. from inception through implementation. The mission of this project is to give children, ages 4-10, whose parent or grandparent has cancer, a voice. The project is based on the book The Moon Balloon by Joan Drescher and training is provided by the author.

In addition to his volunteer work with the Friends of Hope, Russ has volunteered his time at the Magical Moon Foundation in Marshfield, Ma. which supports children with brain tumors and other life-challenging illnesses.

Based on his 34 years of experience, there is nothing in the community specifically aimed at supporting fathers of children with life-threatening illnesses. Russ’s goal is to create a safe place for dad’s to begin a “conversation”. Contact: Russell Illes / 617-827-0225 / russ@themagichatproject.com

‘Duct Tape Won’t Fix This’ is the upcoming memoir-come-manifesto of Russell Illes; a doting father who has spent almost four decades dealing with his youngest daughter’s 6 bouts of cancer.

While Illes first thought his nation’s official and societal support systems would leave no family member behind, he has found himself dealing with the anxiety and stress alone. Illes soon identified a rampant epidemic of ‘forgotten fathers’ across the country, and he is soon to launch a new blog and book to provide a ‘dumping ground’ for those suffering through their child’s chronic illness in silence.